If someone starts deciding who you can be friends with, what to wear, where to go, or what to be interested in — run. No “let’s talk,” no “maybe I misunderstood” — just run. Love is about choice, not submission. You don’t have to live by someone else’s rules to earn affection. Healthy relationships are built on respect, trust, and freedom — and if one of those things is missing, it’s not love, it’s a trap.